Tinder Taught Me About Dating And Human Nature

Well, everyone is excited about this. I know I’m going to be late. One day, I said to my work efficiency: “Hey, workflow, unexpectedly take a break for two hours to see this.” This is Tinder: hotornot. com(remember?!) match. Just like com and lovers, it is a dating application.

By default, Tinder is a location-based application that extracts information from Facebook, creates profiles, and then extracts matches that meet age/gender ID/location criteria. The only potential matches you can see are a few photos, all your common friends or interests(according to the FB file), and a slogan. Then, if you are interested in them, you can “slide to the right”. If you are not interested, you can slide to the left(compensation: slide to the left, and you will see that their photos are marked with satisfaction that you do not like. )From here on, if you meet their standards(age, gender, distance), they will find you very attractive. You are consistent. Then you can chat, exchange numbers, date, etc.

Of course, I have many questions: What are people doing here? Is there a normal person? Is this just a connectivity application? Is it true that someone broke up with someone in this way? Is it too superficial? Danger, will I become the first kindling marriage?

The dangerous side really attracts me. In fact, when someone says “less than a mile,” you can tell. This makes me feel like I bumped into a guy named Xeon by accident, and I will never see him again. Because he has brazen slogans. His profile photo has a picture of a dog.

The initial experiment made me think of the overall view of the application on dating. Is Tinder just a microcosm of our work in reality?(This is what its creator advocated.) Classify people as attractive or unattractive people, make decisions instantly based on the least facts, and trust complete strangers? Do we really need to know a lot about someone to know if they are consistent?

So I wrote a fact list of dating applications… many of them are about the actual situation of dating.

• If you don’t know what type you have: because you have, you can quickly hate or love a person’s face.
• There is no smooth way to start a conversation with a complete stranger. Because the only thing you have in common is that you are not ugly.
• It is possible to hate a person based entirely on your common Facebook friends.
• People obviously do not realize that photos with nieces or nephews can be misleading or confused.
• A smart introduction goes a long way.
• In the first impression, you will never have a second chance.
• Obviously, 80% of men like to “work hard and play hard”. There are many leather books and apartments with a strong smell of mahogany. They know about one Latin word.
• If they look too good to be true, they are probably true.
• Take this as an opportunity to delete the avatars of you and your predecessors that you do not know. There is nothing more confusing than Tinder photos. In the picture, a man leans against a girl. You may not know the “Interests” selected on Facebook. I just saw a man. The only thing he and we have in common is our common concern for Buitoni Pasta. What?
• If someone is less than a mile away from you, put down your mobile phone slowly and escape slowly.(Well, this person is me.)
• Everyone likes traveling! And sports! Try something new! And food!