Why Do You Want To Talk About Sex With Your Friends
A few years ago, my friends and I thought it was a good idea to have a “sex brunch”. I know it sounds strange, but I keep reading. We want to talk too much, but we don’t have enough time and place to really do it. So we booked breakfast on Sunday, chose one’s apartment, and found out what everyone had brought or done. Since then, we have held “Holy Brunch” many times, each time more interesting. This allows us to talk more about sex and make us closer as friends. Not only our friendship, but also my view on personal relationship and sex of the body has become more positive. Sex is weird, but embracing it can completely change your relationship with it.
My own sex brunch(recommended!!) Is it the first time to chat with your girlfriend? That’s why you have to finish it as soon as possible.
Untie the myths you often hear
As women, we often hear lies about sex. Women who have too much sex are not good. Wait until marriage is bad; masturbation is disgusting. Updated in 2018: You can do everything you want with your body. Sharing this with your girls is a great way to spread such freedom and sexuality. We are born with sex. Don’t be afraid of exposure.
Make oneself weak
It’s terrible to talk about sex! Strange and awkward, especially if you haven’t done it before. But once you get into the habit of sharing more about yourself(it’s perfectly normal!), You won’t be so worried. In one case, it may take a while to allow yourself to become vulnerable, but growth is very necessary. The important thing is to remind yourself whether your experience is normal or abnormal
Be closer to friends
Maybe you will find that you and your friends have more in common than you think. Maybe you don’t like any job. Maybe you and your spouse have had similar experiences. Everyone knows that the best way to make friends is to have the same worries, so we will certainly build more friendships through this. It also lets you know more about them. Once you know what someone has experienced or is experiencing, it’s easy to support them. Verifying that friends feel comfortable and grateful in this seemingly inconvenient situation.
Learn one or two things
I learned a lot from my friends, and I believe I also gave them one or two things worth thinking about. If you are an active person, you should know more about sexually transmitted infections, birth control, birth and overall health. Sexual health should not be taken lightly. Your friends can be good resources. Maybe they have had similar experience, or know the most suitable gynecology and obstetrics department for you. No matter what difficulties you encounter, they will support you.
I’m sure when it was wrong
You know that everything looks good in your relationship, but once you start telling your friends, you will realize that this is not the case. Talking about sex can sometimes have the same effect. Whether your partner is having fun or has any physical problems, your girl can generally give the right direction, whether in your obstetrics and gynecology office or talking to your spouse.
Know yourself better sexually
Talking about sex loudly really tells me what I like and want, whether I have a spouse or not. I have learned what I like and hate. I want to try something new. Speak up and tell me whether I am satisfied with it. I also learned a lot about my sexual relationship with my body. In most of my life, I have a problem with my body image. Sex may be challenging, which will bring pressure to myself and my partner. But it was not until I began to discuss this issue with others that I really understood why. Obviously, your body takes up a lot of parts of your sex life, so it’s helpful to be aware of what makes you feel confident or self-confident.
Build a deeper relationship with your spouse
It’s more valuable than you think to be able to discuss your sex life with someone other than the person you have sex with. When you feel comfortable talking about sex with others, it encourages you to talk about sex with your spouse. This is consistent with many other points, but if you give yourself a space to feel vulnerable, it will open the way for your relationship to grow and develop, and you will not feel pressured by anything. For example, you won’t find something strange or inappropriate for your spouse. Once you tell someone how you feel, it’s easier for you to tell him or her instead of spitting out when you’re angry or upset.
very fun!
Whenever I get together with my friends to talk about sex, I can’t even tell how happy I am. Sometimes, those organic and original stories are just what you need. We will share stories and experiences, and discuss our feelings about sex in pancakes and OJ. This is really a magical experience.