Yes, I Am A Woman. I Watch Porn.
Most people remember hearing or watching porn for the first time. Whether at a sleep party with friends or spouses, or at home on Saturday night, we have all experienced pornography after your curiosity surprised you.
But there seems to be a misunderstanding that this only applies to men. Does it sound like something else we discussed earlier? Some people think that porn is disgusting, strange, humiliating, unladylike, bad, vulgar, uncomfortable and sexually abusive. We can continue.
Therefore, for decades, women have been teaching me to find other ways to express their sexual orientation or not to express all of them. For various reasons, this way of thinking is dangerous. First, it basically means that it is wrong for women to have a natural and normal experience. It does not provide tools for learning and understanding, and does not need to actually participate in women, especially young women.
I didn’t watch porn regularly until I went to college. I finally got my own idea and found that sex and sexuality are not dirty, but normal. When I have the opportunity to learn and enjoy more things, my sex life will change a lot.
Watching porn gives me confidence in my bedroom. Yes, you read very well. It is generally described as degrading to women, encouraging rude behavior, and encouraging them to try new things. It is very strong sexually. I feel more confident in buying underwear and having sex with my spouse. I started talking about sex with my spouse and friends.
Contact with porn is to remind me of normal sexual behavior and encourage me in porn. Pornography allows me to explore other ways of sexual desire before contacting my spouse. I found a new position. Some are great, some make you laugh half way. Because they are definitely not suitable to try at home.
In the porn industry, there are obviously several problems that need to be solved(more women and LGBTQ directors!). I know that not all porn is equal. Some industries cannot accept unfair treatment of women, especially women of color and LGBTQ people. There are also many problems for young people to contact with pornography, and I don’t know how this will affect their sexual attitudes and views in adulthood.
However, I want to find a way to deal with this situation, such as watching pornographic works created by ethical creators. Watching pornographic films directed by women and LGBTQ people and pornographic films that pay fair wages to all actors are new discoveries of my pornographic travel. I’ve read straight novels written by women.(I promise there’s something better than 50 degree shadows. But I still love my Christian Gray.) I also started paying for my porn. Yes, I didn’t expect to say that, but I joined the membership with several friends for one year. We basically started to do the same thing for everyone’s Netflix and Hulu passwords!
Another aspect of loving porn is to understand that it is not real life. These people are actors, so your sexual experience is useless compared with what you see on the iPhone screen.(Most women watch porn on their smartphones!) They get Brazilians once a week, because this is their job, so they focus on this aspect of their body. You can’t look like that. If your spouse doesn’t believe it, he or she isn’t worth your time.
Pornography does not mean that sexual experience is reflected in real people’s daily life. This is a fantasy. Of course, fantasies can’t go wrong until they begin to permeate your daily life in a negative way. I found a porn that stimulates confidence and sexual desire. I never thought I would be there.
So if you are afraid to watch porn, or more afraid to admit that you have seen porn, please do not worry. I just admitted this on the whole Internet. We are all together.