Seven Things To Stop Being Single

All single women: How many people said they would shrink after breaking up? Hands up. We have all been there.

Endurance of feelings is not suitable for timid people. It’s no use being single, even if you are full of expectations. You must constantly search for a soul mate in every corner, or eliminate worries in a bottle of wine on the sofa. These are two cliches about single life. But whether you fly in pairs or alone, I think we can agree on the next seven things. Don’t tell any bachelor.

What is going on? Two people look perfect

If we break up, we may not, you know? I find that people mean good. Sometimes the end of a relationship can be a complete shock.

But, youabsolutelyI know what a couple looks like from outside. I have seen couples who quarrel 24 hours a day remain strong for decades, and others are the iron core of divorce. In addition, making promises work for a person is not always a one size fits all solution; individuals may want to be interested in partners with you, and others may be attracted to each other.

Anyway, if this relationship ends, I believe there is a reason… It may not be related to you. Call friends, share details, and focus on supporting them to move forward.

2. I don’t like them anyway.

This answer always confuses me. I mean, how do you answer this question? I want it, too? You’re right, thank you for not telling me? This usually makes the new bachelor feel that people have been evaluating their relationship. That’s not good. Or prove the feeling of wasting time. This is a double disadvantage. It is unhelpful to hear that the person you love thinks that the love of your life will never be “unique”. Even if you finally learned it yourself.

Let’s be realistic. Sometimes talking about a friend’s ex boyfriend may help heal the wound. Enjoy a few minutes and remind us of new opportunities, wisdom and new beginnings in experience and lessons.

You are lucky. Now you can do whatever you want.

My brother heard about it.wholeThe time after parting. This makes me laugh. Because technically, she has done whatever she wants to do. Whether there is an important partner or not.

There is a certain truth to this feeling now. When you are truly single, technically, you are free to make plans without considering others. You can arrange your schedule regardless of others’ schedules. You can fall into mysterious behavior.Province and cityI’m Kelly Bradshaw. Eat a pile of pickles from your underwear on the kitchen counter.

But new single friends may have bad luck. Especially if she or he doesn’t choose to end the relationship before. Be careful not to duplicate your single experience with others. You may think that this is an opportunity to do something small in the club every night, but your friends will be very sad. Or you may worry that they will be lonely forever. They are completely content to get along calmly for a period of time. The core is to define what it is not your job to be single to others.

4. Have you ever dated online?

Online dating is often considered the secret to the success of modern love… or the worst thing in history. It is difficult for newly single people to become single. The story of someone meeting their fiance on the Internet was praised. It seems that the fact that this happened to others will make people feel better. If you choose electronic dating, but it is not successful, or you want to try it, but you are not often humiliated, it is very challenging.

I admit that as a newly married person, I think Tinder is a movie like date. This is totally unfair. Not to mention it is unrealistic for many of us. Technology has its drawbacks in dating, but it can also be a connecting point for many couples. It feels too much for others, which is also good. So if your friends go back to the dating pond again, support all their choices, and encourage them to keep an open mind, because you never know where or how you meet the people you care about.

You have such high standards.

News flash: It doesn’t matter if you are picky. Of course, you can really have specific desires. This desire can be satisfied in reality or not.(yelling at a woman who insists on not dating someone shorter than herself.) But who am I? What do you do, don’t need, don’t want in your relationship? You are you. Shh.

But in recent years, when I think of casual people and my friends dating people, my eyebrows are raised. TBH is because we can have higher standards.

6. Don’t worry, you will find someone!

I know that people say this to reassure people. The same principle applies to everyone. When you don’t, you will find someone. “If this is fate, it will happen.”

These sentences have two meanings. They suggest that finding a spouse is problematic or(no) absolutely necessary to remain complete and happy in the relationship. This is not true. Obviously, you should sit down and let it happen, or constantly build relationships with someone’s mother, colleagues, or daughter’s friends. If you like these two methods, that’s great. I know not everyone is like that.

Looking for someone is a strange social pressure. New single friends may be ready to find someone, or eager to share their life with others, but there is no need to emphasize the potential insecurity during the trip, nor consider whether they bring extra points.

I promise there will be someone better than you.

This will not only reduce all the negative or complex emotions your friends may have when they break up, but also assume that their primary goal is to find a replacement spouse as soon as possible. My good friend is single after a long love affair ends unexpectedly. She said that when she said that no matter how kind she was, she did not care about dating, she hoped that more people would believe her.

Yes, ideally, “better” people will be there to serve your friends, but if they are not persistent in seeking, this is also completely acceptable. Different from what Disney movies tell us, love is not the epitome of human experience. It’s good that you want to give your friends the best things, such as happy, supportive, happy, sexy time. In one’s life, those can only be outside the construction of formal relationships.

But I don’t know what to say

although we received the relationship card first when we met friends, there are actually other topics of equal importance. “Do you have any upcoming travel plans?” Or “How is your family?” Or “What’s your favorite way of reporting news?” Talk about music, politics, pets, home decoration, TV programs, books, sports or styles. Sharing methodsYoursRecently, the relationship is also developing, which can calm a friend’s emotional life for a minute.

To tell the truth: you can be happy with others, or you can be happy yourself; relationships can either not expand your experience or not. If a friend finally finds another partner, that’s great! But there are many reasons to celebrate this time. You don’t need permission.