4. An Important Part Of Maintaining Marriage

“Until death separates us “… These words have different meanings for many other couples. For newlyweds, these wordsI’m excitedFor this middle-aged coupletaskFor the old couple, these wordsEverythingBecause they unite the world. These words remind us that marriage is an eternal commitment. But in a society where almost half of marriages are not for good, what is needed to maintain a long-term marriage?

My wife and I were happily married for 19 years. These words are more meaningful today than they were 20 years ago. The following are the four essential elements of marriage that we know “until death separates us”.

1. Love

Their commitment to love is the most important and most important factor in maintaining their marriage.

The foundation of marriage is love. True love is not something you can do.receiveBut about what you chose unconditionallyCome on2 PeoplefeelIn love. And theyFall offIn love. But eventually theystudyLove, sometimes they have toWarfareFor love. Their commitment to love is the most important and most important factor in maintaining their marriage. But sometimes love can’t win. Sometimes selfishness wins, pride wins, anger wins, and broken trust wins. But the promise of lifelong love is one of the most powerful forces in any marriage. It is continuous, sacrificial and unconditional.

2. Trust

If a marriage wants to thrive, it needs to increase trust over time. A healthy relationship is based on mutual trust, that is, husband and wifeReliablyConsider each other’s best interests. This requires a degree of transparency, which usually only occurs in marital relationships. This is trust and transparency, easy to hurt the spouse. Whether good or bad, different from others, they still love you, so they know you.

3. Prayer

Marriage is not a contract between two people, but a contract between three people(men, women, God). If any marriage wants to be truly successful, it should pay attention not only to feelings and sex, but also to spirit. We are born for this and know each other well in terms of relationship, body and spirit. Praying together is a simple and important way to maintain a lasting spiritual relationship with God.

4. Happy

Marriage is designed to be desirable and pleasant. There are many practical ways to achieve this, including date nights, vacations, intentional expression of love, and scheduling sex. But our selfishness often gets in the way. Marriage is for fun. If not, you are wrong. That’s why diversity, adventure, spontaneity, and play are so important in your relationship. If you want to spend a long time with your spouse, you should often play together and put happiness first.