Five Common Areas Where Women Want Men To Take The Initiative
My wife likes to live in the wild. Before we got married, we took a group of teenagers on backpacking, hiking and camping trips for a week. As a former guide in Colorado, she started this trip and recruited a guide friend to guide her. I have never been a person who likes outdoor sports. I’m usually farthest away from the wild is hole 15 of the golf course. I thought they had everything, so I followed passively. I’ve never helped. I also admit that sometimes my attitude is not positive.
As we left the path, I could see that she was a bit upset. My occasional bad attitude is a good reason, but what really attracted her was that I did not actively help the leader. All this made her feel lonely. At the same time, I thought everything was fine. This is a communication problem to some extent, but I noticed that when I lack initiative, our relationship will encounter difficulties. When I don’t take the lead or sit passively side by side with my wife, we both get frustrated. Here are five common areas in which women pursue male dominance.
1. Leadership
Women want men to set a standard and direction for their families. Women want men to set a standard and direction for their families. They want us to be more moral to our families. This is not to expect them to obey their orders. They, like us, are part of the family values. But they hope that we can live consistently, communicate effectively, and strengthen it, so as to move forward with a heavy load.
2. Attention
Women want men to have eyes and ears in the family. They hope to have full contact and concentrated dialogue with them and children. If you are like me, it is easy to want to pay the bill after a long day. I must remind myself. Sometimes remind yourself every day. My family should at least receive the attention of work. When we walked into the front door, they wanted us to concentrate on chasing.
3. Plan
If there is a contradiction between my wife and me, it is here. It’s hard for me to know what to do today. Not to mention thinking ahead. At the same time, my Anhai has planned my daughter’s birthday… 2019(although not true, but somewhat similar.) Whether you are a planner or not, they all want us to get engaged here: vacation, date night, family trip, meal plan, etc. When we think about things with them and help them with their plans, they will be concerned. When we mention it before them, they will be more interested. They feel lonely when we let them plan alone. This is the last thing they want.
4. Improving the family
I haven’t met a woman who doesn’t want a beautiful house. In some ways, both right and wrong are their performances. They want us to pay attention to the small details they add to make the house look better and appreciate it. Taking responsibility for our household cleaning is a way to lighten their burden. But what they want to do most may be to dream of an ideal home with them. It is not so much scale and wealth as creating life together.
5. Finance
Women want security. This is not a high salary, but a clear understanding and description of financial details. The sense of security comes from promoting financial dialogue, setting goals and promoting accountability. This means that instead of giving orders to them like their subordinates, they begin to discuss financial health and vision. Then develop strategies for how to achieve these goals.
The question of solidarity
Get together with your wife, “Where do I need my help most now?”