10 Ways To Improve The Dating Game In 2022

Dating is always difficult to deal with: what text messages do you reply to, who pays the check, and why it is difficult to see normal people? But dating in 2022 brings a new set of difficulties. Dating stereotypes no longer apply. Most communication takes place through an application program. From 2020, how do we make up when we are at home(no, just me?) Forget about it. But whether it is difficult or not, we should have a full life. Make new friends in interesting ways and really enjoy dating. Because nobody should be tired of Charlotte’s date

We say that every year, but 2022 can really be a year for you to achieve all your goals(# newmisterewme, am I right?). If you are looking for love(or, you know, just want a good date), this year may be your golden opportunity. Here are 10 tips for dating. You can have more fun, love more fully, and find happy love.(No matter how serious) Continue to read until 2023, and achieve romantic success.

1. Appreciate the difference of current dating

As soon as the “stay at home” command takes effect, the dating game changes. You may get tired of zoom dating, or you may decide on a date based on your current vaccination situation. But what happens in the world does not necessarily hurt your emotional life. In fact, this may even be beneficial. For example, during FANDEMIC, dating means focusing on emotional connection first, because physical connection and excitement of a new relationship are impossible. You don’t have to spend time and energy actually dating to know who is who. You’ve learned to build slower relationships(by the way, did you know?) Staying at home is an opportunity to know others with less worry. The past two years have changed us in many ways. The way you date(and the priority you want) may be one of them. Re evaluate the project you are looking forHow do you do it?You want to date based on what you learned.

2. Open all options

Many of us have this idea. We need films worth seeing. When we find a soul mate, we need to be cute. However, if you do not close your eyes in a crowded bar or meet a high school sweetheart(Holmark Channel Style) who has been forgotten for a long time at home, you cannot attend any meeting. Although Hollywood makes us believe that we can meet valuable people anywhere. You can meet your ideal partner in meetings, book meetings, elevators and dog walking, or in dating applications. The more open choices you make, the more you will meet people you like. Instead of waiting for “meeting cute people,” open up any possibilities that are right for you.

3. Forget the prerequisites

Many of us have an extensive list of prerequisites before considering a first date. No matter your interest, religion or background, maybe you want to be like you. For people with dating experience, old age or catsmethodDog like people). In general, compatibility with shared values determined by similarity is important, but under hypothetical preconditions, you will try to understand someone. The only “prerequisite” you need is kindness, integrity, humor and other values that cannot be negotiated. Otherwise, please do not deviate from the list and give your opinion according to your feelings. Pay attention to the person in front of you. Try not to project a story or give a characteristic meaning to the person before you know him. Before deciding whether someone is right for you, ask him why he does it and really care about him.

4. It has been shielded with “possibility”!

Do you have an ex boyfriend who has been wandering around you for years, or a bad guy who makes you dizzy? Text those people when you are lonely or bored, or who you think you areprobablyWhich day are you interested in? I call them “possibilists”. Ex boyfriend, ex date, “this is complicated” relationship. For the first time, these relations have not been resolved. But you save their numbers on your mobile phone, hoping “just in case” or something will change.

We have many reasons to be with people who know they are not good for us. It may be a safety blanket, we may be lonely, or we may be seeking outside approval. But no matter what kind of people appear in your life, as long as you realize that they are not suitable for you, this should be the end rather than the end. Now, if you like to flirt with your best friend(you have no feelings for him) or that sexy colleague, you will like it, woman. But do you go to those people out of loneliness, comfort and uneasiness? They’re just stopping you. Know what you deserve, be honest with yourself, and don’t settle for the status quo. Additional tip: follow on social media. Do what you want

5. Imagine your best self

Dating highlights our greatest anxiety. We can over analyze what the text message or Tinder said, try on 15 different clothes before the date, and even predict the worst case, preparing for ghosts or dating failure. Sounds familiar? Think of yourself at your best to heal your pre dating jitters. Are you confident, comfortable, or friendly? How would you behave on this date with the most confidence? What will you wear? Do you care what you wear? Remind yourselfyouYou want to impress your date, not the other way around. Even if you are not confident or calm, imagining your best simple behaviors can help you relax and enjoy the date without falling into your head.

6. Remember that “no” is not a curse

In fact, this is one of the most important words in your dating vocabulary. Especially as women, we are taught to be cute and kind when dating, and pay more attention to whether we really like them. Do you know what we should swear to end in 2022? Dating will not excite us, send text messages to people we hate, or tell us what we want and need in a relationship, but protect others’ selves. In general, when you want to say no, try to say “no”. Compromise and empathy are important in interpersonal relationships, but so are respect for each other’s wishes and desires. Communicating what you don’t want should be as simple as what you do. If not, this person will not respect you or care about you as they say. Thank you now.

7. Make the most of one’s time

Reference Dragon: A person is a good thing. The emotional state of being alone, even the time of being alone, can make us turn to our hearts, explore our most real desires, and better understand ourselves. When we know ourselves and what we want, our dating life will become more fulfilling, successful and interesting. Any single time can be used to understand what we want from our spouse, but more importantly, we do not need a spouse to feel so complete.

8. Discard outdated rules

Let me talk about the outdated dating rules. We should really throw them away, such as yesterday. First of all, among all the rules of dating, the ones I hate most are “Don’t kiss on the first date” and “the rule of three dates”. Discard any rules that suggest what and when you want to do with your body. Make your own rules based on your comfort and feelings.

Next step: strive for or wait for the first step of the other party. In addition to gender roles that lag behind the times, this “rule” also stems from the idea that people who pay less attention in relationships have the greatest power. But is love about power? Care is OK; weImaginaryCare for each other. So, what does it matter to be “too strong” or “more concerned”? Be faithful to your feelings and what you want. Oh, the first action can save a lot of time and let us know whether they like us.

9. Focus on finding what you want

The purpose of dating is to find something.youNot to be what others want, but to be what they want. Some people will like you, some people will not. Although who wants to fall in love with you or have a second date has nothing to do with your loveliness,Do, doRelated to compatibility. I think we can all agree. Many people don’t mind that we don’t match them. Prioritize your needs for your partner by listing the qualities or values that you want to be non negotiable, and prevent yourself from being in a relationship or a person. Instead, ask yourself if you really like all the people you chat with and if they are suitable for you.

10. I know that dating should be happy(or stop)

Repeat with me: Dating will be fun. It should not feel forced, bored, painful or sad. If the date is not pleasant, please remember that you will exert too much pressure on each date, or feel uncomfortable with the date, focus on the wrong thing, or promise not only for a result. Whether it’s dating, chatting, or dating for a few months, all the experiences will make you clearer.

The purpose of dating, talking with new friends and opening up to make new friends isNo,Feed yourself, confirm your uneasiness, or find your soul mate as soon as possible. The purpose is to collect information so that you can get closer to a happy and fulfilling life and spend happy time in the process. Bottom line: It’s fun to make new friends whether you have a second date or not. Otherwise, take a break on the date and think about what you really want in your dating life.