Give Me A Shoulder, Not Your Mouth.

Your goal is to be a gentle, lovely, gentle husband who doesn’t like preaching. When the pressure is high, lecturing will only increase the pressure. For me, this is a new concept, because I have no lucky father who will treat his wife gently. Only a few years ago did I realize that my wife should be gentle. Someone told me that one of the greatest requirements of a woman is to be gentle, not to preach, but to listen to her husband. Even if someone did, I never thought I would understand. But I must be able to understand, because when I am depressed, people like to comfort me gently

I will never forget what a woman said to me: “If my husband is depressed, he just won’t hold me and scold me!” But at the beginning of the last 734, he told her that it would be better if she took aspirin… if she was more organized… if she didn’t make herself too tired… if she could teach her children better

“Did you tell him what you needed?” I asked you.

“Are you kidding? I’ll be embarrassed.” She smiled. Okay, I’m joking.

“No, he may not know what to do. He does not know that you should be arrested, not scolded. Why did you not tell him in a quiet conversation one day?”

“This makes sense to me. In many cases, when I am depressed, crying, and upset, he says,” What do you want to do? “I suddenly lost my temper and said, “If I had to tell you what I should do, I would destroy the whole idea.”

As a husband, when a wife needs comfort, you’d better ask her when and how to hold her. Ask her what made her find your gentle loving arm and touch. You can’t dream alone. We just can’t feel the affection of others. We must pull them out to practice, practice, and practice the skills required by their wives.