Ways To Appreciate Your Wife’s Strengths
People often use “love is blind” to express their initial infatuation in love. When you fall in love, it’s easy to see all the positive characteristics of people and not admit their weaknesses. But not because they are not here. We all know. Especially after the honeymoon period, the “truth” of your “truth” first met her. If we are not careful, we can forget the advantages that attracted us to each other and focus on how to change the shortcomings of the people we love.
In most marriages, it is natural to expand the weaknesses of the spouse and ignore the obvious advantages. But we must do the opposite. Here are three ways to appreciate your wife’s strengths.
It is more important to praise her strengths than to correct her weaknesses.
I heard that every negative word we say to someone should be offset by seven affirmative words. The principle behind correctness is correct: praise is always more powerful and effective than criticism. When you see your wife thrive on her strengths, remind her that you are her biggest fan. Whether she is a rock star mother, a warm and outstanding mother, an elegant and tolerant example, or before putting others’ requirements on her own, she should always listen to your education, rather than constantly nagging about her weaknesses.
2. Make up for your shortcomings with her advantages.
Most married couples have a lot in common, but most people have very different ideas and methods of operation. How couples deal with differences can determine the success or failure of a relationship. In my home, we like to have people come. My wifeIt’s amazingBut she is not a surprising “cleaner”. I’m sorry, dear. But I always keep things clean. If my life depends on it, I can hardly fry eggs. So she prepared most(if not all), and I cleaned most(if not all). We learned to make up for each other’s strengths, not weaknesses, and the results were very good.
How couples deal with differences can determine the success or failure of a relationship.
3. Work in chaos.
It is not easy to understand each other’s strengths and weaknesses.(You will still leave your dirty socks and underwear on the ground, and she will still read your thoughts before you speak.) Disagreements with your spouse are inevitable. But if you try to understand your wife and respect different views, you can gently gain strength from each other instead of colliding with each other and causing disasters.