What Should Be Considered When Pursuing A Leisure Relationship

This is a very common “advanced” question. “So I am very good at looking for women. I learned a lot and was very happy. But I met a great woman. I really like being with her. I don’t want to end this period. But I don’t want to fall in love anymore.” – I have been listening.

For many men, dating a woman is a great time to date. “It has their moist and delicious cake, and they also eat it.” But for experienced people, the reality is somewhat different. It’s usually not that simple. It may not even be that attractive. It may be complex and difficult, but if done correctly, it will be great. He is a good teacher.

How do you build relationships instead of relationships?

Here are 5 points to consider when building a more comfortable style relationship.

#I know why you want

When I asked why men want to do whatever they want with girls and why they don’t want to play the game of monogamy, most people didn’t give a better reason than “I just don’t want to.”.

Did you spend too much time in love? Have you decided to dedicate this year to your personal growth? You just don’t believe in monogamy? You need to know why. You must persevere. Most men are anxious about the girl’s leaving or wanting something else, and even confused about the reason why they agree to maintain their own feelings at will. Generally speaking, this is a choice that will be regretted in a short time.

#2 Focus on the development of life

“I want to know another woman” is the most reliable way for any woman to run. When explaining why you want to work as you please, don’t focus on the “seducing others” part. Instead, focus on your growth, improve your life, keep your freedom, and keep her free. Different from what most people pursue, please focus on your desire to surpass the ordinary. When it comes to another woman, she should always be your first.

#3 Don’t fall down, don’t hide

Men often listen to my advice. Moreover, when meeting a woman or dating for the first time, I will disclose these things. They began to curse the anti relationship, and then wanted to know why the girl left. When “normal” two people meet, they gradually open their hearts.

You have no obligation to declare your intention immediately. Of course not. But even so, you don’t want to lie.(Because of moral reasons, people will inevitably be created.) And you don’t want to wait too long. She knows where you are and what you want to date. Generally, the sooner the better.(It’s also easier.)

Personally, I suggest that this should also be implied in the first interaction. Just please don’t put it all on her. After all, the more satisfied you are with the job and the more convinced you are of your reasons, the more satisfied she will be.

#4 Your unique medicine taste

Many people I have met tell me that they want to date at will or establish open relationships without knowing the emotional impact, which really makes me shake my head sometimes. I personally think that as men, we are more jealous. Especially in the sexual aspect, when the girl you like, even the “breathing” love, colludes with other men, or even just flirts with him, I think it is shy.

But what is good for geese is good for geese. You can’t be angry with her. Especially if you are a very free person. As the scouts say, be ready.

#5 Provide her true value

If you are not in love, but you do not encourage her, do not have fun with her, do not make her laugh, do not give her a good sex, why does she want to be with you? You should give her some value! If she is an attractive woman, and other men are eager to establish a stable relationship with her, what will you leave her.

It’s not about manipulation, but about being valuable enough to make her want to be with you. If you don’t know your UVP or unique value proposition(as they say in business), that is, if you don’t know what makes you different, different and outstanding, it will be difficult for you to maintain an open relationship.