Australian Couples Spend Time In Isolation During Their Holiday “Instagram War”
The mistakes of some relationships span generations. Others accidentally liked the wrong picture on Instagram. I’m in the back camp. Last week, I turned over my feed and did isolation exercise on my thumb. I felt a sense of fear and disgust. Since Hunter S. Thompson found his accountant bouncing around in his Las Vegas hotel room, I haven’t felt this way.
Under the Instagram personality photos I followed, the cattle that were posing in an exotic place in a black bikini hurt my heart.
I used to like my girlfriend. Maybe it’s because I accidentally liked similar photos a week ago.
I keep rolling.
Facts have proved that this has happened more than once. Facts have proved that I am not a friend(privately), and I admit that they have encountered the same thing.
But come back to me: I’m not sure what my next move should be in this Instagram Cold War. I called Heidi Gee, the Sydney couple’s consultant, and said, “What should I do?”
Heidi said that before checking the partner’s actions, you should look inside: “Maybe she noticed that you are following these accounts. I want to know why you are following these accounts and interested in what you are following, especially those accounts are female.”
Nevertheless, “honest communication is better than wearing Henry Kissinger’s hat to ruin your relationship.”
That doesn’t mean you can’t be smart. Passive aggressiveness will lead to quarrels(but). If you say what I mentioned in the above answer, you can better understand her feelings, but I think what her reaction is.
In order to end this legend, we asked Heidi whether he thought the Instagram Cold War was a new phenomenon or just an old stalemate, which was going on in a new way. This is what Heidi told us. I think there may be many forms of negative and aggressive arguments like “standing aside”, but today we have social media that can access the content that our partners like, care about and comment on.
Heidi added: “The problem is that we all like all kinds of tastes. So if you are just appreciating it, it doesn’t mean that we prefer what we see.”
If it bothers you, it is important to talk about it with your spouse, so that you will not be excited and guess from the same position why your spouse is doing what they are doing.