If I Could Remarry My Wife, I Would Do Five Different Things.

At the 1972 Olympic Games, the most unforgettable or unforgettable replay in sports history took place(depending on which side you stand). This happened at the end of the men’s basketball gold medal match between the United States and the Soviet Union. The game ended with the first defeat of the American men’s Olympic basketball team. All this was the result of the Soviet Union’s re work.What a painful moment for the United States, and what a happy and unforgettable moment for the Soviet Union. The United States team is still disappointed at the outcome of all this. I believe that the players of this team will also be willing to be seriously injured.(The Soviet Union actually received two heavy penalties.) In the whole game, the American team fell behind by 3 seconds, and two free throws led by 1 point. The Soviet team must complete all games in 3 seconds.

As soon as they received the foul ball, they lost the long shot, and the American team won. No, the officials allowed the Soviet Union to stop and the Soviet Union to start again. In the second game, the Soviet team scored a goal, and another one or two punches, and the American team won. No, Due to the wrong game clock, the Soviet Union was severely punished again. Although the Soviet Union kicked the ball out again, this time he threw a long pass and was hit by the ball. In an uncontroversial game, the Soviet Union won. As you can imagine, that game had many regrets, hindsight and three replay results.

Sometimes we regret or speculate about what happened in our marriage. For my marriage and family, I will never regret, It has been a very difficult time. Fortunately, we can use the marriage challenge to close our distance and appreciate the good and bad. But sometimes I think, “once again” if I take other methods.

1. I will take better care of our finances.

If you are familiar with our marriage story, you will find that our family has been homeless twice. Both of them are caused by unemployment or income loss. If we manage our finances better, both of them can be avoided. When I lose my job and income, Without enough savings and debt, we can be better prepared.

2. I will never stop dating.

My wife and I shared the fact that we haven’t dated for many years. There was a season in our marriage, and dating and date nights didn’t exist at all. As a result, our marriage changed slowly. In hindsight, we now know how important dating is in marriage, And I know what the impact of dating is now.

3. I will have more conversations with us.

We got married with our first child. So as husband and wife, we don’t have much time. Many of our conversations focused on the agenda, daughter, etc. We did not talk about us, nor about our future lives and dreams. At that time, we talked about the things in front of us, and our relationship sometimes withdrew from the communication. If I do it again, we will spend more time talking and getting to know each other.

4. I will wait for you.

As mentioned above, our first child was born before our marriage. When she was 10 months old, we said to her, “I know.” We don’t regret her at all. Thank her very much for being in our life. But when two people go together, marriage is full of challenges, especially because we are young. But in addition, two people get together at the same time to try to solve the problem of childcare. It’s very hard. If we repeat our mistakes, we will wait for the moment of intimacy and believe that the best time will come.

5. Lay the foundation for prayer.

We prayed at the beginning of marriage, but mainly in despair and loneliness. We rarely pray together, or even for each other. This has changed Prayer is the foundation of our marriage. We note that this situation also exists for other couples with strong marriages. In fact, Mark and Susan Merril are the co founders of Family First. They shared the importance of marriage prayer when interviewing them at the marriage summit. Another prayer meeting will be the first.

Our marriage cannot be restarted, but we can start operating in our old age in a better way than the previous year. Take the above steps and implement them today to observe the marriage results.

The question of solidarity

Your wife and I crowded together to ask. If we get married again, what do you think we should do?