Peggy Ulen, Once A Man Was Changing The Internet.

Many people believe that the blockade in 2020(now 2021) will lead to the shrinkage of social technology. But if you want to improve our social media technology during this period, you can forgive, and vice versa.

Paige Woolen’s “Dudes in the DM” account uploaded on Instagram shows that many people can only get worse when talking about the decline of DM. Ulen started “the man in DM” from isolation. “I was reflecting on my appearance on social media,” she said.

“I’m looking at my(personal) account.” “What do I really provide here?” “I’m looking at my DM. I’m laughing at the communication with these strangers. I always use humor to deal with torture or torture to find peace.”

Woolen added: “On the whole, we get a lot of strange comments every week, but some people feel ashamed, so they have improved.”

“After creating this account, I received a variety of interesting answers. I recently made a podcast and shared the” notes “of DM slides. I think many people(mostly men) are helpful.”

Ulen also said: “I think it is difficult to have a sudden conversation with strangers on the Internet. It doesn’t seem scary.” “How to approach someone online and make small adjustments will really help a lot. Before reading the information and comments of DM Dudes, many people replied that I didn’t realize how creepy it sounded.”

“To be honest, it’s better to be” normal “or something that makes me laugh. Recently, a guy sent me a joke.” What’s the name of blueberry playing guitar? The answer is JAM meetings. I answered with a gurgle. I also like people to say normal things. For example, “Hello, I’m xx. I love your account! Keep working hard. The same goes for cute dogs” There is a long way to go at the top of the mountain. ”

Woolen also shared the worst DM slide she had ever seen.

“The worst part is the very explicit sex. Someone wants to put a bottle on my butt, which makes me very painful.”

When asked why she thought random strangers would be afraid to say terrible shit, Ulen said to the reporter: “In fact, I think a lot… You can say what you want to say. You have feelings and physical security hidden behind the keyboard.”

HUD is a “positive application”. Katie Wilson, the communication director, said to us: “When we see tennis professionals like Eugenie Bouchard or Kardasian on the Internet, we will not think that they have exceeded expectations in real life, feelings and social media.”

“When the results are not insignificant or non-existent, people are more willing to speak frankly. This is a double-edged sword. On the one hand, it can encourage anxiety against injustice, bravely face bad behavior, and on the other hand, it can encourage inappropriate behavior.”

As for how to approach someone on Instagram in a positive way, Wilson said: “You know, we women do not have a manual on how men can approach men without being bullied or feeling sexually harassed. Therefore, this is a double standard of anger, that is, women usually face the largest proportion of sexual harassment and violence. They are asked to work, and men are asked to be weird.” Teach them how to approach them, not think of water. ”

“Men who are close to women think they should be noticed, or they think they should date or have sex, or they think women should learn real interpersonal skills. If it is not” living alone and taking care of themselves “, it is not women’s responsibility. Men cause problems, and men realize this and solve their problems.” Action must be resumed “.

“I think men(in reality) I don’t think you like to approach women. Because they feel uncomfortable about their identity. They think they should show themselves or behave impressively to attract women’s attention. But I think women prefer authenticity, kindness and openness. ”

“Men who regard women as games will soon be caught. Because women are very smart. We warn each other. Who are the players that should be avoided? I am really considered as the shame of female artists and self-conscious” good people ” I think they filter it. They don’t want to approach women. But the bigger problem is that men can’t hear “no” without looking. This is a challenge.

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