How My Marriage Overcame The Eccentric
The article is on the wall. We seem to be just waiting for the inevitable. We have no income. We have no savings at all. We are even trying to bring food to the table. We will leave home soon. The most distressing thing is that my business failed, we managed our money, and my housewife did not do a good job.
Worst of all, we are not here for the first time. A few years ago, we experienced something similar. Our family was homeless. Main difference: this time, there are not three people, but five people.
When many couples discuss the reasons for divorce and the reasons for many family failures, I fully realize that money and marriage are closely linked. But when I wrote this article, our families were together, our marriage was booming, and our experience now became the source of inspiration for others. The time full of challenges and difficulties will break up a couple, but we consciously decided to grow up with each other. This is why our marriage overcame difficulties. There are seven ways to solve the most difficult problems in marriage and family.
1. We did not blame each other.
My wife didn’t blame me for losing my job. I didn’t blame her for not exceeding the budget. This will be the beginning of the end. We all have responsibilities, but we don’t. Nothing but divorce court. We don’t want that.
2. We can’t find a solution except marriage.
I am sure that other couples have also experienced financial difficulties, lost their homes, or their needs have not been met. When the needs in marriage cannot be met, the temptation can find solutions in addition to marriage. For example, it is adultery. We don’t have it. We can best meet our requirements by observing ourselves alone and walking together as a couple. Finally, we found a solution to our husband and wife’s problems.
3. We did ask for help.
Without family and friends, counselors, books, essence, courses, etc., we will not be able to overcome difficulties. We got a lawyer to solve our marriage problem. We rely on friends and family when we need them. We read books and classes, not only to maintain our marriage, but also to educate ourselves. We have learned how to manage money better and added new technologies to make more money by giving more value to others.
4. We are really closer.
Because in some cases there is no choice. Sharing a bedroom or owning a car gives us a lot of time together! Family dinners on the table, all day work trips, errands and children’s activities have formed the habits that still exist. All this has established a deeper relationship.
5. We choose to make full use of it.
Sometimes we eat like bankrupt college students(would you say instant noodles?), But we had a good time. We often find what we need, because about 90% of the things are in the warehouse. During that trip, our children took out their toys and other interesting things to play with.
We believe in God.
Sometimes we really don’t know how to feed our children. Sometimes we don’t have enough gasoline to take our children to their home school. When we are powerless to get out of trouble… except to believe in God. These days let us pray more than before, and finally believe that God knows our problems and cares about us. He said: “Never leave nor abandon.”
7. We have not lost hope.
I hope you can help me out. We are hopeful about such a fact. If we continue to do the above work, but maintain the state of mind controlled by God, this will never last. This hope keeps us alive, provides motivation, and becomes a bridge to overcome difficulties. But in the end, our marriage overcame the difficulties. I hope you can help me out.
This is a story that I never want to share, but through sharing, I believe that readers will be encouraged, gain hope, and take measures to let their marriage overcome difficulties.
The question of solidarity
Get together with your wife, “What will happen if we lose everything except each other?”