10 Ways To Dance Around Marriage Mines
Marriage is at best an arrangement. They look forward to the great adventure ahead, realize that life is the eternal truth experienced in the community, and promise each other in loyal love, unlimited faith, and uncompromising trust.
Unfortunately, whether the world we live in is just born or has several years of experience, it may be a minefield for married couples. Labor, financial pressure, children, temptations, character defects, work pressure, just do as you say. There is no way to clear all unexploded mines. Sometimes new mines appear within an hour. So the only choice for some destruction is to dance around them.
The decision to dance around the landmines of marriage must be a daily choice and a deliberate commitment when facing challenges. Otherwise, this challenge is easily overcome. Here are 10 ways:
1. Don’t be afraid: Love is always the antidote to fear. This is the principle of faith, believe me.
2. Determination of mine: I know what you are facing. Let him out. You don’t have to dance in the dark.
3. Dancing, it doesn’t matter: Sometimes when things become difficult, it is easy for us to retreat, yield to failure, and live in the shadow. Don’t.
4. Grasp the other party tightly: although we try our best, sometimes mines explode. Jump closer.
5. Be willing to learn: Do you have friends, parents and grandparents aged 20, 30 or over 40? Get together, take them out to dinner, and ask them to share their best moves.
6. Learn how to show others. Along this road, we learned some knowledge about dance. Share what you have learned and draw a roadmap. When we try to help others, we always help ourselves.
7. Remember that commitment is the driving force behind our unity: As long as we dance when we feel strong, romantic, successful or free of landmines, we will miss the meaning of the agreement. Whether privately or worldwide, “This is my partner, even if it is not easy, we will dance!”
8. Learn new songs: By definition, life is mobile, growth oriented and full of vitality. Don’t ignore familiar songs, take time to learn new inspirational ways to avoid explosions.
9. Learn how to use a tourniquet: Sometimes, you can step on the marriage mine. You should know how to bandage the wound quickly and effectively. The key is to know how to forgive and ask for forgiveness.
10. Always believe: Those who know nothing about dancing know that this belief is as important as any technical skill. Please trust your spouse. believe oneself. Believe in love. Already dancing
The question of solidarity
Tonight I will gather with my wife and ask her. What do you think is the biggest obstacle we have overcome in marriage?