Monica Clark: Australian Models’ Refreshing New York Dating Suggestions

How to eat the “big apple”?

We’ve talked about subways, suspenders, and even bearded baits, but we’ve never been close enough to know the secret of dating in New York.

Monika Clark, a 29 year old Australian model living there, recently uploaded a series of stories on Instagram and found another clue.

Clark is single recently. As reported earlier this month, Instagram also answered various questions about breakups, dating, social media, etc.

In the process of escape, Clark showed the light on how to go deep into the New York Times dating scene.

As for the way to approach a woman, she said: “I am not a master, but I would say this: In New York, if you see a girl going out, you should approach her. If she doesn’t feel like coming back, don’t be angry(and don’t insist). ). But don’t be the kind of person who watches a girl go home all night. Then DM is her. ”

For dating, Clark’s best New York dating idea is to “keep it simple. Bring it to a place where the music is not too loud, sit in the corner and drink, and get to know each other.”

For Clark, the Australian model said to me, “Humor is a great thing for me, and a person who appreciates irony.”

In terms of meeting people at the first time, Clark suggested using “going to a cafe” or Bumble.

In addition, due to the scene of rich people and demonstrators in Manhattan drinking Prosecco coffee backstage, some people think New York lost the plot, but Monica reminded on Instagram that New Yorkers are tough people.

All kinds of Redt posts and online reviews show that dating in New York is easier for men than for women.

The popular post “Is New York dating really that terrible?” believes that there is a gender imbalance in New York. It is generally believed that New York is “an amazing city, which can create places with insufficient friends and promote your career development, but it is a terrible place to find love”.

One commentator wrote: “For men, fish and bear’s paw are the same. The number of amazing, smart and successful women far exceeds that of men at the same level.”

Another Redit user said: “This may be related to the business type of New York City. New York City has a lot of work in fashion, publicity and art, but compared with other big cities, STEM career is not much.”

“Of course, there are financial manpower, but there are few engineers and programmers. From a professional perspective, this is just a narrower field.”

Another critic argued that another challenge was the abundance of resources.

“The most difficult part of dating in New York is that there are so many choices. This makes people basically act in the most frivolous way.”

“This is especially troubling for women. From the demographic point of view, men like men in number. But figures alone cannot explain everything. According to my conversations with many women(I have also talked about this many times), the most difficult part of dating here is not quantity, but quality.”

“My single days(before 2014) Ena met some people on the Internet and IRL, which was just described as the embarrassment of wealth. I can walk around the bar and throw stones into the air. And it will fall on a woman who is attractive, motivated, working, interesting and interesting. There is really no one to find. They are everywhere “.

But for women, the situation is sometimes the opposite. I have heard a lot of stories about men they date from my girlfriend. These men are either “between jobs”, or they have no real motivation, or they expect her to take on a lot of work in love, and so on.

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