Negation: Human Beings Prove That It Is Beneficial
Dating women can be difficult sometimes. Yes, We have a lot of dating applications that can make this process easier, but after they finish the work consistent with ours, the rest of the work will be handed over to us. But what works for one girl can bring about the opposite effect for another girl.
A bachelor recently discovered this. Although a bit unexpected, Sean Conan is the hero of this story. He not only found new dating trends, but also won a successful date for himself.
Start with the dating trend: “No”. This refers to the strategy used by a man. He whispered to a woman. Usually just acting like a bad guy. If you try to make her think he is “just stupid”, you will eventually like him.
Of course, women can adopt similar strategies towards men, but it is fair to say that young Rotharios is more likely to use negation to prove that Sean has never heard of the word.(Or realize that his unconscious behavior has a name.)
But Sean did so after he was invited by his friend “Katie” to see her and her friends for a drink. Although Sean met them together, Later, he realized that the woman sitting next to him looked familiar because he had met her in Tinte the day before, but he slipped to the left.
After a few drinks, Sean revealed this fact to Rachel. He only saw her in Tinder. Later, he will explain that this is where the story becomes interesting.
“Rachel” asked Sean if he beat her himself when she suddenly appeared in his feed. Poor Sean was put on the spot, and nothing he did would look good. He was not only a bad liar, He claimed that sliding to the left just dug a hole too deep for him to escape, but he stopped for a while before answering.
Our hearts bleed for Sean.
Fortunately, honesty is really the best policy for a new bachelor. All night, they shared more drinks, and Rachel made a strange joke. “Oh, but I’m not hot, can’t I swipe my card right away?”
Oh, well, can you wipe her?!
Sean told her: “In some strange realities, I slide to the left is the sexiest thing she heard.”
Maybe it’s because he doesn’t even want to talk to her, He can become more himself. “My experience in that bar really provided me with an interesting contrast. At that time, I tried my best to be charming, preserved, sweet and interesting. But in fact, I was just chasing a woman who was only interested in me, and finally watched her slip away from my fingers.”
Sean added: “If there’s anything, it’s important to stay calm at the beginning of the date. Don’t slap your knees and laugh at everything the other person says.”
“Excessive attention may look like a low value prospect, just like there are not many fair choices. It makes your pursuit lose its edge. It’s a bit vague; it’s like attractive jet fuel.”
Sean didn’t say whether he would eventually date Rachel, but the point of this story is to be yourself and be frank with the type of woman you want to date, rather than the mentality of “any woman can”.