Everyone In The Long-Distance BFF Knows

I moved a lot in my life. I left home(Minnesota) to go to a university outside Kansas, moved to Chicago after school, lived in Nashville for a few years, and then returned to Chicago.

During this period, I really left many good friends. In my first week of college, I kept in touch with all my high school friends. Our dormitory, I remember that the class and everyone tried to talk about which girl student get-together. I felt that the pace of life was too fast to tell them all the details(this was the daily situation at home a few months ago), so I was afraid of their phone calls. I don’t think I have two hours to explain all aspects of my new life.

One of the biggest friendship lessons I learned as a young adult is to fulfill and change friendship. I don’t want to integrate friendship into the past, but should appreciate its authenticity.(even though it is quite different from the past)

What I want to say is that I am a little good at long-distance friends.(Well, maybe not an expert, but definitely a fan.) Over the years, I have learned a lot about the beauty of this relationship and the special rules they need to keep them strong. I know this is a valuable thing, the distance between the phone, the car and the plane, and the constant text messages.

I also found that the long-distance friendship is not like the good friends you can see every day or every week. It can’t be done. But it will stand firm with its true subtle qualities.

Therefore, I will list the things I have experienced and appreciated about the best distance friendship. I’m ready to use the way of ode(this is work, right?). You’re welcome, can I introduce it? Long distance BFF odeYou know who you are

Find a crazy balance between ordinary life details and important life moments.

“Hello? ” Don’t use it. On the contrary, no matter what happens to you, torture you or worry about you, you should promise to jump there immediately. It is this degree of comfort and intimacy that makes you(in most cases) no longer in the same city. You can’t take a drink tonight to vent.

These include FaceTime, Snapchat and Instagram direct messages and gifs, text chains and voice messages.

These glorious little things help us to enter each other’s daily world, which is a good immediate way to let your best friend know that you are thinking of her. Or she should buy this shirt, or you can remember her favorite program.

Cheers to the good friends in your life.

All posts on Instagram hope you can spend that moment there(with her!) There is a great person in your life. Also, when you visit her, you should also embrace her local good friends… because when you can’t go, they are there. You two have very common interests(your boyfriend, yes).

This is to spend all the extra money on visiting or traveling together.

This is to take a picture of the place we are going to go to next step, or the interesting things happening in our respective cities that we are going to experience together. This is to create a countdown to the next visit. Just like knowing your own city, in order to know her city.

Here are some insider jokes that will get worse over time.

This is a dictionary of almost all words and phrases that can only be explained by us. You should know that no matter what the other party does, the text messages that come for no reason will cause laughter.

Be the person who needs your BFF anyway.

When life is an asshole, throwing down a huge parabola, I will salute you. It’s a pain when the only person you can feel better is someone a few miles away. Let the ugly me cry together in FaceTime

In order to never be embarrassed to express how much you miss them and how much you wish they were here.

This is “I love you, always text me” to end the call.(I just did this to my sister. She is my ultimate remote friend.) They are expected to be here almost every weekend. So you can have a drink and make fun of each other. It has never been easy.

I dream of spending a lot of time buying land and building a series of “huts” to gather all my long-distance friends together. How incredible it would be. But they all hope their good friends are there… So I want to say that I will soon become a great mayor of a small town.

What is it mainly? I’m proud of your emotional efforts.

Here are the peaks and valleys. One of you is busy at work, or another of you has just started a new love, so you feel a little far away. To communicate and forgive, to work harder, to pick up the phone(but not just the keyboard).

To the people who know you best and like you best.